The Unofficial Quiz To The Different Types of Romantic Relationships

I used to think there was 2 different types of romantic relationships: the one’s that share their snacks and the ones who do not. That was until I entered my mid twenties, and I discovered that different types of romantic relationships fell on an insane spectrum.

Getting into a new relationship is extremely exciting, but it’s important to know what kind of relationship you are getting in to, or are already in.

After years of field research (by which I mean dating, observing friends, and eavesdropping on couples in cafés), I have identified several recurring types of romantic relationships. Please note: this list is not scientific, but it is emotionally accurate.

You are going to learn about the different types of relationships, and which one you fall into.

This post is all about the different types of relationships.

The unoffical guide to Types of Romantic Relationships

1. The Situationship (A Tragedy in Three Acts)

The situationship is not a relationship, but it is also not not a relationship. Basically it is a whole big confusing mess that entertains your friends and adds to the plot, but it doesn’t do much in terms of emotional stability [which who needs anyway].

You see each other regularly. You text every day. You’ve spent more nights not in your own bed than in your own bed, which feels intimate, yet somehow have not met their friends, or their mum. Any attempt to clarify what’s happening is met with phrases like “let’s just see where it goes” or “I don’t do labels.”

Where is it going? Nowhere. But slowly.

2. The “We Accidentally Moved In Together” Relationship

We all know this couple, all in from day one. They go from complete strangers to all each other can talk about. This relationship usually begins with a sleepover that never ends. One person leaves a toothbrush. Then a hoodie. Then, inexplicably, a houseplant. Suddenly you are arguing about bin day and whose turn it is to wash the sheets without ever actually having had a formal discussion.

No one remembers the moment it became serious, but you do own matching pyjamas. Commitment sneaks up on you in this relationship, usually while you’re both watching Netflix on a Saturday at 7 p.m.

3. The Golden Retriever & Black Cat Combo

One of you is emotionally expressive, playful and full of energy. The other relies on caffeine to get through the day. One prefers to spend their day’s indoors with a book, while the other can be found at a run club or a spontaneous weekend mountain hike. One likes Tennis, the other likes sleep.

One is the life of the party with a million friends, the other has 3… if that. But they both love each other very, but in contrasting ways. Balance is achieved through mild irritation and unconditional loyalty.

4. The Long-Term Couple Who silently judges other relationships

These couples have been together a long, long time, and tend to believe they have it all figured out. And, to be fair, they normally do. These couples tend to be private about the ins and outs of their relationships, and therefore they typically come across as very strong.

But, for these types of relationships, in public, one raised eyebrow can convey an entire essay’s worth of judgment.

New couples admire them. Friends fear them. No ones secrets are safe when it comes to each other. They are unsettling but efficient.

5. The On-Again, Off-Again Relationship (A Series That Should Have Ended A Long time ago)

This relationship has more seasons than it needs. Every reunion feels like a new episode of a Telenovela. While each reboot come’s with a promise that ‘this time it’s different’, which is technically true, in the sense there are new and bigger problems than the last episode.

Friends pretend to be supportive- spoiler, they’re not. Everyone knows the ending, but you watch anyway, hoping for a twist.

6. The Relationship That Is centred around Food

You know that couple who are always eating out, instagraming their lunches, travelling to try new food. Those one’s. Those couples are typically pretty chill and fun to hang around with, and usually host the best movie night’s.

They don’t say “I love you” as much as you say “Do you want some of this?” Meals are dates. Snacks are bonding experiences. Hanger is the true enemy.

This relationship thrives on shared takeaways, dinner dates, food markets and movie marathons. They are not bothered by other people’s drama but always willing to lend a listening ear. After all, all they care about is what they’re making for dinner, and they’re already headed to the shops to make sure it will be spectacular.

7. The Intellectual and The ARtist.

This relationship come’ in many forms, it can be the gamer and the writer, the painter and the mathematician. The whole dynamic focuses on 2 brains that work very differently. Often categorised by the ADHD and Autistic archetype. One is a financial liability, the other keeps a roof on their heads, literally.

The artists and the intellectual’s friends are far from compatible, which makes birthday parties a little awkward. But it doesn’t matter because the couple get on just fine.

Quiz: What Type of Romantic Relationship Are you in?

1. How do you usually describe your partner to other people?

A. “Someone I’m seeing… it’s hard to explain.”

B. “My partner/ boyfriend/ girlfriend- we live together.”

C. “They’re annoying but I love them.”

D. Raises eyebrows knowingly “We’ve been together a very long time.”

E. “We’re not together right now… but we kind of are.”

F. “The person I share food with.”

G. “Opposite’s attract”

2. How often do you communicate?

A. Constant texting, mostly late at night.

B. All the time – you even share calendars.

C. One of you texts a lot; the other replies eventually.

D. You don’t need to- you just know.

E. In intense bursts, followed by dramatic silence.

F. Mostly about food plans.

G. All the damn time.

3. What happens if someone asks, “So what are you two?”

A. Panic. Deflection. Nervous laughter.

B. A clear, confident answer.

C. One of you answers; the other shrugs.

D. You exchange a look and change the subject.

E. A long backstory is required.

F. “Hungry.”

G. “That’s my boo”

4. What is your biggest recurring argument?

A. Commitment and mixed signals.

B. Chores, money, or who forgot to buy milk.

C. Tone. Always tone.

D. Things that happened years ago but still matter.

E. Trust, timing, or whether this is a good idea.

F. What they’re going to have for dinner.

G. Whether this is actually serious.

5. How would you describe the emotional dynamic?

A. Confusing but intense.

B. Comfortable and stable.

C. Enthusiastic meets emotionally reserved.

D. Deeply bonded and mildly judgmental.

E. Passionate but chaotic.

F. Affectionate and snack-based.

G. Clingy and slightly co dependant.

6. What does a perfect evening together look like?

A. Intense conversation and emotional closeness.

B. Comfortable domestic routine.

C. One of you talking; one listening.

D. Quiet time together.

E. Reminising

F. Takeaway and shared desserts.

G. co existing, but doing completely different activities.

7. How do you handle conflict?

A. Overthink privately, then send a long message.

B. Talk it through calmly (eventually).

C. One of you talks; the other goes quiet.

D. Refer to precedent: “We’ve dealt with this before.”

E. Break up, reunite, repeat.

F. Offer food as a peace gesture.

G. One is mature, the other is argumentative, both are stubborn.

Results: Mostly A’s, B’s, C’s, etc.

Mostly A’s- The Situationship

You exist in emotional limbo. There is chemistry, closeness, and absolutely no clarity. You are emotionally invested without emotional security. You deserve answers — or at least fewer mixed signals.

Mostly B’s- The “We Accidentally Moved In Together” Relationship

Your relationship escalated quietly and efficiently. You may not remember deciding to commit, but you are committed. Love crept up on you wearing your partner’s hoodie.

Mostly C’s- Golden Retriever & Black Cat

One of you loves loudly; the other loves deeply but quietly. You balance each other through contrast, affection, and mild exasperation.

Mostly D’s- The Long-Term Eyebrow Communicators

You’ve been together long enough to communicate without words. Your bond is strong, your history is long, and your facial expressions are frighteningly effective.

Mostly E’s- The On-Again, Off-Again Epic

Your relationship has chapters, breaks, and dramatic reunions. Growth is possible — but consistency would be revolutionary.

Mostly F’s- The Food-Based Relationship

Your love language is sharing snacks. You thrive on comfort, routine, and mutual understanding that hunger ruins everything.

Mostly G’s- The Intellectual and the artist

You insist you’re relaxed and independent while caring deeply and constantly. You’re hobbies don’t align but you are happy as long as you are together.

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What type of relationship are you?